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Episode 89

Down there hair: Must we remove it?

Bad date: After a woman endures a super-creepy date, the fellow is still trying to contact her and pries her friends for info about her. How can she get rid of him? Is there something she should have done differently to give him the message?

Unhappy endings? A gay man in a relationship of 12 years has been caught getting massages with “happy endings.” Does this spell the end of their relationship?

Polygamist sister: The caller’s sis is involved in a potentially abusive polygamist relationship. What can the caller do to help?

Lapsed Catholics: Are they damaged goods or a scorching-hot lay waiting to happen?

All this, and even more.
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Episode 88

The 34-year-old Dan Savage tackles the following questions:
If you’re into older guys, will you always be into older guys? Like even when you’re old? And is there anything wrong with that?
What’s so very wrong with young people getting married, anyway?
How can a lesbian swirling in lesbian psychodrama develop a bionic bullshit detector?
And more.
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Episode 87

Blood and Sugar: Today’s episode spans many topics, including ladies who get compensated for their sweet time. One caller is falling in love with her sugar daddy. Another caller has a fuck buddy who has suggested that he pay her for her services; how much should she charge? A fit gay man has fantasies of being fed into obesity. A man wonders if he and his buddies should pay a prostitute to pretend to pick up their socially awkward virgin friend out of pure desire. And a clever retaliation for the woman whose husband leaves his spunk all over the house.

Not for the faint of heart.
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Episode 86

How can a 21-year-old straight college student meet girls who will indulge his desire to be forced to clean their houses?

After a rancorous break-up, she wants the sex tape that they made together returned to her. Who should own this precious memory?

A recently dumped gay man wants to know how to make one last “grand romantic gesture” to try to save the relationship.

A sadly sexless teen wants to lose her virginity to her dearly beloved boyfriend. But he wants to wait until marriage. He is also her “best friend.” Is he gay?

A married woman with two small children has discovered that her husband is having an affair. Should she allow it to go on or kick him to the curb?

And more.
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Episode 85

Lesbian Poly Drama: She stole her best friend’s wife. How can she get rid of all that pesky guilt?

Cheaters: One man in a four-year relationship wants to cheat because the sex is dull. Another fella got busted cheating and wonders how to negotiate an open relationship next time.

Ah, to be a young gay man: An 18-year-old homo was at a party, when his drunken, “straight-identified” friend all but threw himself at him. Will he remember what he said tomorrow? And another 18-year-old homo is getting very close with a 17-year-old homo. The 17-year-old’s parents are fine with it, but what would The Law think?

Dan counsels a man whose girlfriend has decided that after six months of hot monkey sex, Jesus wants them to abstain until they get married.

And, the final call illustrates why you should NEVER listen to this show just before you go to bed.

You’ve been warned…
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Episode 84

He thinks he’s a 61-year-old sex machine; she just likes the money he pays her. Should she keep pretending to enjoy the oral sex her sugar daddy insists on giving her? • Clark Kent: Hear the charming but confusing tale of a couple who maintain both a real and online relationship with each other. • Two calls from people wondering about open relationships, one from a happily married man whose wife wants to branch out, and another from a woman who very much wants to be the OTHER woman. • A brother and sister are gay. Should they both come out at the same time? • And, Dan Savage gets support from the fatosphere.

Do you have an itchy rash? An inexplicable lump? Does it hurt when you go like this?
We’re getting a doctor in the house, so ask your medical questions now. 206-201-2720.

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Episode 83

Join Dan Savage and guest star Cory Silverberg in a very special sex-with-disabilities episode of the Savage Lovecast.
Also, a follow-up call from the French major house of drama.
And an awful lot more.

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Episode 82

A former call girl is dating a conservative man. Should she tell him about her history with “compensated dating?”
If you are a straight man, what is the polite way to reject a gay man?
A woman who has been faking orgasms with her boyfriend wonders if she should tell him the truth now that they’re breaking up.
Amateur online porn: Some pros and cons.
He’s a kinky motherfucker who enjoys the BDSM. She, as a rape survivor and feminist, not so much. Is their new relationship doomed?

And more.
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Episode 81

My, what a fabulously GAY show we have for you this week.

First, a woman notices that though normally heterosexual, she tends to go gay at certain times during her menstrual cycle. Spooky.
A GGG gay man would like to indulge his lover’s piss fetish, but wants to make sure it’s safe first.
A man who was sexually abused by his father as a child has made a new friend. The hitch? This friend appears on the sex-offender registry.
A father is miffed because his 12-year-old son who just came out won’t dish about boys with him.
Bareback porn—any ethical problems here?
A young man has gained 100 pounds. Hear Dan’s reasonable diet/lifestyle regimen here.

And more.
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Episode 80

In a house full of college intrigue, the caller’s roommate has invited his French mistress to come visit. Should the roommate bother telling his American girlfriend ahead of time?
A self-described self-destructive lesbian wonders how she can lure some emotionally healthy ladies into her life.
A straight man was perusing porn when he discovered some creepy pics of his ex! Should he tell her about it or keep it to himself?
Should a masochistic lass feel guilty about her troubling rape fantasies?
A cure for wet dreams, and so much more.

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